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The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Mr Caddy in Sheffield see like. i was referred to him back in december, but then in february he was off sick for ages so i got referred to Mr Kneeshaw in Hull (who i actually saw 2 days ago lmao) but then mr caddy came back and gave me an appointment in june and since hearing nothing since i... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
this thread hardly ever gets updated but i am hype so posting basically everywhere i am out on: top surgery on monday hoooly shit -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
that is pretty much the standard "cis way of thinking about gender" for lack of a better expression if you weren't cis you'd very likely have feelings that something was not quite right as for the identifying out of male/female because society's expectations of gender then i've never... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
hope you're feeling better soon man, glad it went well though! -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
YEAH BYRUS WHENEVER YOU GET A CHANCE PLS TELL US HOW IT WENT me: got a consultation for top surgery on the 18th, actual surgery will be may/june i think. also currently have a girlfriend (who is also bi) and am still surrounded by straight people irl 24/7. is rather tiring. do any other... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
after 9 months of being delayed for top surgery they are referring me for it right now. may 2015 hell fuckin yea -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
i didn't know you could get lower surgery this soon after top, that's awesome also i'd definitely like to see a write up of it. i'm still undecided on which surgery to have (or if i'll even have it) because like you said, so much disinformation... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
is everyone doing an update on their lives uh well i've been on testosterone for over a year and was gonna get referred for top surgery this month but too much shit has happened in the past 6 months so they're not doing it now. have to wait until june at the earliest. fuckin bollocks man... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
wow your chest looks great! happy for you, man :D hopefully this should be happening for me too next year.... omg is travel and food and stuff really covered on the nhs though that's the best thing i've ever heard and good luck with the phalloplasty!! -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
can his GP refer him (her?) to a gender clinic? apparently there is one in exeter, not sure how close that is to you though since your profile only says SW england. also if she's not 18 yet it might be a bit difficult anyway, i was told to wait until i was 18 before i could be referred if... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
so i'm pretty sure i am getting testosterone on 21st january going to the doctors on wednesday to have a shitload of blood tests done lol it's a weird feeling though absolutely no excitement whatsoever, just the feeling of "wow maybe my life will stop being a shitty void of nothingness now" -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
kinda answered that yourself if you have no desire to be male and don't really care that you're female, that's that you can still be a woman and be masculine, your gender has absolutely nothing to do with the way you act or dress. nothing. -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
oh god this yes at least scotland seems to be getting somewhere ;_; maybe edit: erm since i ain't posted in ere in ages, some sort of personal update thingamajig i am most likely starting HRT in january/february 3 and a half years of waiting, man. it is happening. -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
"i'm male but i'm totes ok with having boobs and a vagina and i won't change any of it" makes all the sense. i don't want to clog this thread is there somewhere else we can move this to -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
if you don't want to transition and are totally fine with your birth sex, what exactly makes one trans? please tell me -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
if you have no desire to transition (note: different from not being able to), you're not trans. if you are fine with seeing yourself as your birth sex, you are not trans. -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
aromantic I guess and yes, cis -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
congrats!!! how long are you needing to rest for? and are you able to do things by yourself or do you have to be helped? if you don't mind me asking anyway, i'm just curious about the recovery process and stuff :B as for lorem's questions i just hear that "a lot" of people /don't/ have lower... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
i feel you there. i was denied to start HRT over a year ago because of shit like my social anxiety and the fact at that point I'd never had a job. never mind that where i live finding a job is like finding a fart in a jacuzzi. i'm amazed that you've lasted at uni for as long as you have though... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
oh god naoto i have probably never sobbed so hard over a game before as i did with all of naoto's stuff in p4. and that's not really in a good way, some of the stuff kind of hit home for me but as tailsy says, parts of the social link are uggghhhhhh and technically she's not trans so but other...